HOW TO LET HER DOWN EASY!
Thinking of letting down a girl is pretty easier than actually doing it. It may sound odd but it's much more difficult to proceed in the same. There is no such word as a "perfect breakup". You need to be very cautious of your speech and behavior as well. It can make you feel like a heartless guy- maybe even like you're the one who is dumping her - you have to let her down when you know she was expecting to be with you.
At some extreme turns in your lives, you're all wondering about the sudden dilemma of breaking up with someone you've decided to spend the rest of your life. Even, it will go worse, if you're not a complete douche that is, your care and affection for her still alive deep in your veins, even if you don't love her anymore.
When time hit the doorbell, usually most men delay to end their relationships. It's not wise to postpone it until you can't hold it any longer, even its more unwise to drop the atom bomb of separation without prior notice. Instead, just pick up the most calm break up process. Who knows! Perhaps, you may manage to find a 'good friend' in her for the rest of your life.
1. As soon as you felt unhappy and not interested in her, don't give any false impression, just tell the truth. She may immediately react at your point. Be honest, yet tactful.
2. Gradually start with ignorance. Ignore her calls and texts, spend more time at work/study, even meet her very lately and oftenly though . She may question about it, yet she will get the clue.
3. Tell her first before you disclose the same feelings of yours to anyone else, tell family and friends. Chances are, she could hear the same from others and may take it in another sense. So be careful!
4. Don't tell her through any electronic media like emails, social networks, text messages or even over phone calls. Just talk to her face to face, in a suitable private cum neutral location where anyone of you can leave easily. It will be more convenient to express the matter properly.
6. Prepare yourself in the scene to start. There is much more chance of tears, screaming, loud angry voice, puppy faces and of course 'why'? Just stay calm.
7. Being cruel to her at this point won't work at all. Leaves the matter on a positive aspect and definitely the result will come up with a more positive side. Else a bad impression will arise here.
8. As its going to be ended, be prepared to face the hardest part of after effect. Don't stop your communication suddenly. She may need more explanation hereafter.
On passing the day, the entire process of breakup is not going to be that easy. The side effects may give a scar. Just be strong and have patience for all your deeds. Although its you, who had chosen this 'being-single-again' over 'staying-happily-with-someone-special'.
